This Message Sheikh Abdul Qadir For Husband and Husband Candidate

This Message Sheikh Abdul Qadir For Husband and Husband Candidate

What a husband needs to remember is that a wife is trustworthy to him. From here then all things related to the wife is the responsibility of the husband, including moral education.

A husband is responsible for educating his wife, teaching him religious matters, reminding him to obey the applicable law, and refine the look. A husband is also required to be patient in educating his wife. Husbands are also required to not reply and not hurt his wife. Simply put, a husband must show good praise in the day-to-day wading of his household.

To that end, Sheikh Abdul Qadir Al-Jailani advised the prospective husband and husband to treat his wife in honor. This is alluded to Sheikh Abdul Qadir in Al-Ghuniyah li Thalibi Thariqil Haqqi Azza wa Jalla following.

ولا ينبغي أن يتزوج سليطة اللسان ولا مختلعة ولا متواشمة. فإذا تزوج فليحسن خلقه معها ولا يؤذيها ولا يكرهها على مهرها فتختلع منه، ولا يشتم لها أبا ولا أما، فإن فعل ذلك كان الله  ورسوله بريئين منه قال النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم: استوصوا بالنساء خيرا فإنهن عوانٍ عندكم. يعني أُسَرَاء

It means, "A man should not marry a woman with a mouthless mouth, a woman who does what she likes, or a woman who likes to impose someone else's dignity. If even had married a woman like this, then the husband must still maintain morals against him; Not hurt him; Not forcibly forcibly treasures such as his dowries so that in response he does as he pleases; And not insulting both parents. If all abstinence is done, then (grace and help) Allah and His Apostle escape from the husband.

Rasulullah SAW said, 'Remember my will! Do good to your wives because they are like your captives, 'the spoils (taken from their parents),' "(See Sheikh Abdul Qadir Al-Jailani, Al-Ghuniyah li Thalibi Thariqil Haqqi Azza wa Jalla, Beirut, Darul Pole Al-Ilmiyah, 1997 M / 1417 H, juz I, page 103).

The message of Sheikh Abdul Qadir Al-Jailani above is very clear that a wife has a place of honor. While continuing to educate slowly, a husband is required to show morality to his wife, regardless of his condition. Wife is a mandate where the husband was married from parenting hands of both parents in the name of Allah SWT. You know. (Alhafiz K)